New Sexytightass Szh Paysites Letter G Sexy Tight Ass Porn Makes You Want Less Real Sex (by Jeremy Zawodny)

By the way, I'm not fat and I'm not ugly. My brests aren't fake but they are big and fucking great. Also I like my boyfriend to "fuck" me, he just can't have sex with real women anymore. Not even if there were two of us.

modern Western culture is seriously flawed, but so is the author's logic when she concludes that her orthdox friend is onto something because she wears a bag on her head and her husband is the only one who gets to see her. isn't that kowtowing in the extreme to the dreaded 'male gaze' as much as women who dress like sluts to get men's attention? neither is a solution, it's pretty shokcing she would conclude this way.

the author interviews college students and is disappointed by their supposed sad lives. what's clear to me here is not that porn is ruining society, but that these college kids are mixed up and unsure of themselves. that is, they're like all college kids. if anything this says more about the infanitlization of young people these days. in the author's day, a college-aged person was a resonsible adult, nowadays you aren't expected to have your act together until you're at least 30.

bottom line, people who would let their lives be dictated by porn were gonna take direction from something equally as vapid no matter what. it's disheartening, but we're not all that stupid. Naomi Wolf is upset that things aren't like they were in the 70's, and she may have a point. but she should probably review the way things really were then, i think she'll find women's sexual liberation was never as good as nostalgia makes it out to be. nor is the present as bleak as she paints it.

To the poster who said she had to do all this extra work to keep her man hard etc., cause he was a big wanker, I would suggest you kick him to the curb. No offense, but I had the same type of a guy once due to the same problem (too much wanking) and it just screamed "loser" to me. If he is masturbating sooo much that he's no longer man enough to satisfy his wife/gf sexually happy then I see no point in keeping that around. I loved the guy I was with too, so it was a tough decision, but eventually I just no longer saw him as a man and that did it for me.

This kind of thing appears to be happening more and more often (from what I hear from my girl friends) so it seems that porn is actually _emasculating_ our men. It's really making men seem on the whole rather pathetic, and now when I date I have to check ahead of time to see how controlled by the porn/wanking he is, because otherwise I know he's going to suck in bed. For this reason, I too tend to avoid avoid avoid the porn-consuming males out there.

hai i am new to this...just go and cool....

by
karthik

at least porn is there for us and the pussy and ass is easy to find ! Real sex know isn't easy to find and I'm still a virgin so so how do you think I should get some sex walk to a girl and ask her even if she said yes who knows what her pussy looks like it maybe sweet like and pure or used and hedises?

Even though it's been two years, people like shona are part of the problem with a lot of women. They only want guys to be sexual on THEIR terms, and no one else's. If the guy likes sex, he's not allowed to express that unless he's having sex with her in a beautiful, DIVINE, ANGELIC experience that meets her expectations and doesn't derive from anything she wouldn't normally do. Well I'm sorry, but that just doesn't cut it. Guys are human too, and while they have an obligation to satisfy your sexual needs if they're in a relationship with you, that doesn't mean they can only be sexual when you decide it.

Porn is mainly a way for us to experience different types of sex without actually doing these things. It can be a replacement for sex when you're single and have no serious prospects in sight, or it can be an addition to an otherwise healthy sex life with a partner who will not do certain things. I will not any potential partner tie me up. Never. I think it's lame and boring, and besides that, I don't trust anyone not to harm me while I'm in that state. Yes, not even a girlfriend. I've heard too many stories of things that went wrong when a wife or girlfriend was angry at their husband/boyfriend and decided to get back at them during sex. So, no thanks on the tying up scenario. Doesn't mean I'm gonna tell my girlfriend she absolutely cannot watch any videos of people getting tied up. That's just asking for a slap for not minding my own business. But that leads me to my next point.

What about those of us who will never have time for a relationship because of our schooling, our jobs, and other endeavors that we have to accomplish that are more important? Would you deny us our only source of sexual satisfaction? If you would, then you're a cold hearted monster and I don't even want to know how cruelly you treat the men in your life. Also, what about female masturbation? Is a woman rubbing herself off in bed to a fantasy any better than a guy wanking to porn at a computer? We've heard so long about how guys are allowed to wank and women are supposed to be ashamed of it, yet now we're seeing a trend where women view guys who wank as being pathetic while they're allowed to rub themselves off all they like and indulge in every type of self-pleasuring imaginable. Don't believe me? Ask shona what she does to satisfy herself when there isn't a guy around. I'll bet her answer won't be "go seek out a guy as soon as possible!"

I watch a lot of porn, and that doesn't make me want real sex any less. If anything, it makes me want real sex more. It shows me how much fun sex can be, but I've also heard of all the hassles that come with sex - sweaty bodies, awkwardness, lack of orgasm for one or both parties (and then there's the really scary stuff - STDs, pregnancy, your partner cheating on you), and that really throws a damper on the incentive one might have to have sex. I don't want to be rolling around in the sack with a sweaty, disgusting person who is going to find the whole thing awkward and not orgasm no matter what I do! It's like the example I always use of a person getting explained to them what it's like to be a cop, with none of the positives. The officer tells them "it's nothing like you see on TV. It's a shit job with low pay, tough hours, no recognition, and a lot of risking your life every day of the week, and getting nothing in return." Are you going to want to be a cop after hearing that? NO! Of course not. You are going to get say "get the hell away from me! I don't want to be a cop: it sounds like shit!" Likewise, if you only hear about the negatives of sex - and that's all we hear a lot of the time from Republican conservatives and medical professionals/social advocates - porn seems like a very good alternative to the actual process of sex. There the people ARE having fun, even if they're faking it, and as long as they put on a good enough show, especially if they're amateurs, that's good enough for you. I want to experiment, but I also don't want to deal with all the awkwardness and bullshit that comes with sex, and porn is a great way to do that. You're not going to be worrying afterward about all the concerns like, "did I do alright? Why was it so difficult? Oh my god, what if she's pregnant? What if she has a disease she didn't tell me about?" and all that garbage that can occur even when you have safe sex and are perfectly prepared for it.

Women like Brianna don't help matters either. So instead of trying to wean the guy off the porn to help him please you more and achieve a balance between the two, you advise dumping him right away without even giving him a chance? You didn't "love him" then, if he was that easily disposable to you. It's one thing if you gave him a chance and he blew it, but it really doesn't sound like that was the case. Forgive me if that's not the case, but that's what it sounds like. So then you go and get yourself a guy who satisfies you in bed, then treats you like shit the rest of the time, and it'll be worth it just because you're getting off? And writing off all the "porn consuming guys"? So that's what - pretty much any single guy who doesn't have a girlfriend and still needs some way to find some relief, without a hooker or anything like that? That's going to leave a very small amount of guys, and those will likely be the guys who are so consumed by other activities, they don't have time for anything else. That's why they don't like porn, not because they're opposed to it, but because they're simply too damn busy with other things to bother with it (and yes, that means they'll be too busy to have sex with you when you get together with them. How many wives haven't we heard complaining of their husbands never having sex with them, despite the fact they don't watch a lick of porn? It's a common occurrence; I'm not just making this up.) Or else, and much worse, you're going to end up with the extremely religious guys who view sex as some kind of edict from God, which means it can only be done in certain ways and is strictly for the man and procreating only. Those are the kinds of guys that are "above porn". And while there are a few genuinely great guys who aren't interested in porn, they're already going to be taken, if they're so damn perfect. It's nothing against them, I'm just saying - if they're that perfect, they already have a girlfriend, or they're married.

I think I could be a pretty damn good lover if given the chance. I would listen to my partner, I would do everything they told me to in terms of what it took to please them, and I would go down on them at every opportunity possible. But I know that's not physically possible given my schedule and my awkward social tendencies (I'm not a big party goer, I don't like to go to bars, I don't like to drink, etc.). I am never going to have a relationship, and to be honest, I'm not sure I want one. I know a fairly obvious joke could be made about "women of the world being thankful for that", but the truth is I'm not really this harsh most of the time. I'm a very quiet, solitary guy who keeps his own opinions to himself and doesn't really mess with anybody. I just don't have the time or the courage for sex. But at least porn gives me a taste of what I'm missing, and don't have the time to pursue. People like shona would have us simply pretend we don't have any sex drives altogether, and take away a world of enjoyment for thousands upon thousands of people. No, scratch that. Millions, if the revenue of porn sites and the adult industry is anything to go by.

Is is possible to grow too attached to sex? Yes, but that goes for anything. Coffee, sugar, movies, TV shows, video games, sports, hobbies, etc.; things that aren't even 'wrong' like cigarettes and drugs. That doesn't mean the whole product is worthless and in need of disposing. Porn serves a vital role in this society, and it has nothing to do with raising expectations to unrealistically high levels. Don't dismiss it just because a few people can't control themselves once they get into it.

I used to like porn, in fact I still do, but now I find myself getting jealous over those girls in porn. Why? Because my boyfriend has hundreds of videos on his computer, watches porn at home and at work and not even glances at me. I have to beg for sex, and when I get "lucky" it's always bad, fast and boring. he's incredibly selfish in bed, not to mention quiet. I do blame it on porn, since I had never had that problem before. He spends hours and hours a day looking at naked girls on the internet and downloads a bunch of videos of girls pleasuring themselves. I t has become a problem, and it has left me feeling, ugly, frustrated, dissatisfied and sad. So for the most part i believe porn is ok, just as long as people can control it's use and don't let porn control them.